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		<title>By: How to Price a Wall Mural &#8211; Developing a Price Sheet and Proposal &#124; Murals - Maria Brophy</title>
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		<dc:creator>How to Price a Wall Mural &#8211; Developing a Price Sheet and Proposal &#124; Murals - Maria Brophy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 03 Sep 2010 19:24:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] a deposit is also a psychological thing with your client – you want to train them to view you as a professional who expects prompt payment, and they are fully committed when they pay half up [...]</description>
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		<title>By: Sharon McKeague</title>
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		<dc:creator>Sharon McKeague</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 07 Dec 2009 06:29:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Maria,
Great information!  Yes, it applies to us all, I&#039;ve had a similar experience with editing work.  I look forward to reading more of your inspirational blog! 
Sharon
Okay, you&#039;ve got me motivated - we&#039;ll get together in January!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Maria,<br />
Great information!  Yes, it applies to us all, I&#8217;ve had a similar experience with editing work.  I look forward to reading more of your inspirational blog!<br />
Sharon<br />
Okay, you&#8217;ve got me motivated &#8211; we&#8217;ll get together in January!</p>
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		<title>By: Maria Brophy</title>
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		<dc:creator>Maria Brophy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 05 Dec 2009 21:15:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Regina, thanks for the comment.  Sounds like you have it figured out.  

One tactic I know that people have used in your situation is to have a &quot;pretend partner&quot; - someone that you have to call to get an okay from!!!!  (Someone who doesn&#039;t really exist, but you can blame it on them....)

But, it&#039;s even better that you are sticking to your guns, in a sweet manner.  It gains you respect and people will come to expect that you stick to your policies.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Regina, thanks for the comment.  Sounds like you have it figured out.  </p>
<p>One tactic I know that people have used in your situation is to have a &#8220;pretend partner&#8221; &#8211; someone that you have to call to get an okay from!!!!  (Someone who doesn&#8217;t really exist, but you can blame it on them&#8230;.)</p>
<p>But, it&#8217;s even better that you are sticking to your guns, in a sweet manner.  It gains you respect and people will come to expect that you stick to your policies.</p>
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		<title>By: Regina</title>
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		<dc:creator>Regina</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 05 Dec 2009 15:58:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Very uplifting...as a shop owner and a woman; I will have ppl all the time minimizing my policies...their idea is....you own the shop...you &quot;can&quot; do this for me...or they will simply demand a discount and go delinquent on their layaways, always a bargaining situation, when the prices are right there!  I started sticking to my policies, instead of twisting and bending for &quot;their&quot; needs, I really did think that would make ppl angry and they would take their business elsewhere;  honestly, they are still shopping here and the bargaining (thankfully) has ended :)

You are right...consistence, clear minded and strong is the way to success!!!

Talk to you later!
Regina</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Very uplifting&#8230;as a shop owner and a woman; I will have ppl all the time minimizing my policies&#8230;their idea is&#8230;.you own the shop&#8230;you &#8220;can&#8221; do this for me&#8230;or they will simply demand a discount and go delinquent on their layaways, always a bargaining situation, when the prices are right there!  I started sticking to my policies, instead of twisting and bending for &#8220;their&#8221; needs, I really did think that would make ppl angry and they would take their business elsewhere;  honestly, they are still shopping here and the bargaining (thankfully) has ended <img src='http://mariabrophy.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>You are right&#8230;consistence, clear minded and strong is the way to success!!!</p>
<p>Talk to you later!<br />
Regina</p>
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		<title>By: Cecily</title>
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		<dc:creator>Cecily</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 05 Dec 2009 14:57:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Another gem, Maria. Like the real estate girl described here, I love how your blogs are helping my business of tutoring. You just might be the next entrepreneurial guru! Maintaining a value on your time/ service keeps not just your client but yourself committed and accountable.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Another gem, Maria. Like the real estate girl described here, I love how your blogs are helping my business of tutoring. You just might be the next entrepreneurial guru! Maintaining a value on your time/ service keeps not just your client but yourself committed and accountable.</p>
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		<title>By: Maria Brophy</title>
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		<dc:creator>Maria Brophy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 04 Dec 2009 17:02:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Danny, thanks for the comment.  I think that it&#039;s okay to give friends and family some sort of little discount, but in order to make it as a full time artist, you have to charge for your time.  Otherwise, you&#039;ll end up waiting tables or doing accounting or something else that you weren&#039;t meant to do!  (Or just starving)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Danny, thanks for the comment.  I think that it&#8217;s okay to give friends and family some sort of little discount, but in order to make it as a full time artist, you have to charge for your time.  Otherwise, you&#8217;ll end up waiting tables or doing accounting or something else that you weren&#8217;t meant to do!  (Or just starving)</p>
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		<title>By: Danny Cruz</title>
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		<dc:creator>Danny Cruz</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 04 Dec 2009 09:59:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Wow Maria, very good post. Just about everyone has to deal with this at some point. I&#039;ve struggled with this sort of thing as well. For too long I was cutting deals to friends that were too good. In the end, I was negatively affecting my career. But hey. You live and you learn. I&#039;m glad I sorted this problem out a couple of years ago. Still have to watch out or it every once in a while.  Danny</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Wow Maria, very good post. Just about everyone has to deal with this at some point. I&#8217;ve struggled with this sort of thing as well. For too long I was cutting deals to friends that were too good. In the end, I was negatively affecting my career. But hey. You live and you learn. I&#8217;m glad I sorted this problem out a couple of years ago. Still have to watch out or it every once in a while.  Danny</p>
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